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瑪格﹕你好！對她.我有時都猜不透她的想法... 真的像人家說的"女人心.海底針"嗎 ?有時遷就她.就說我沒主意.要不就說我大男人.難道 我要像一個孩子般聽她使喚?
Marks |
Dear Marks沒有人能叫你做任何你不想做的事.如果你不想像孩子般聽她使喚,那就告訴她呀! 告訴她你猜不透她要什麼,要你怎麼做,她如果再不表明清楚,你會受不了而離開她的,看看她會怎麼 說嘍!
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瑪格﹕你好！因工作上的關係而喜歡上她,又因為同星座個性和性趣非常相近,彼此的印象都不錯,感覺上像老朋友,每次向她提起想成為男女朋友,總是以目前不想交男朋友為理由,可是又跟我非常好,我該如何是好?
Cliff |
Dear Cliff:你不喜歡現在的狀況嗎?雖然不是男女朋友,但你們相處的也許比一般的情侶還要談的來,還要融洽, 是不?再給她些時間吧!也許就只是目前而以,有耐心一些,畢盡你現在能多在她身邊,多培養感情,不 是也很好嗎?
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瑪格﹕你好！我最近愛上了一個女生，但我不知道她是否喜歡我， 因為也蠻多人想追她的，但是她和我在一起的時候，我感覺她的言行 舉止都好像和我很親密，直到上次我和她說我喜歡她，她似乎有點受寵若驚， 也可能是我因此而尷尬吧!!我和她就比較沒有說話了!!可是這幾天，我試著和 她說話，咦~她的態度變得更好了!!可是我還是不知道她心裡在想什麼!我該如 何?追她嗎??還是放棄呢??我怎不該向她表白呢???請妳幫我好嗎???謝謝~~
小豪 |
Dear 小豪:你應該高興呀! 看樣子,你們只是因為想由朋友轉成情侶,彼此都有一些尷尬吧! 既然她變的更好了,那就表示她有意要接受你啦! 何不你也就放輕鬆,自自然然的與她相處, 不要老想著該怎麼"表白",有時就是說的太明了才讓人尷尬的.
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瑪格﹕你好！分離了六年的這段感情.在我們各自都有了愛我們的人之後. 又再一次甦醒.是該自私的選擇我們想要的幸福呢?還是該默默的壓抑住這一 切 . . . . . . .
Bonnie |
Dear Bonnie:記得你們當初為什麼會分離嗎? 只是環境因素,還是有別的理由? 想清楚:你們只是懷念你們曾經擁有的?還是你們真的能看到你們倆一起的未來? 我相信以目前的情況,你們也不會有太多的時間相處,你怎麼知道你們不是只是活在 回憶中呢?六年了,可是一段不短的時間,尤其是你們都由是學生轉變成社會人了,改 變一定有不少.別太衝動的做下決定,給彼此一段再認識的時間後再做選擇吧!
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瑪格﹕你好！本人認識了一女子己有兩年，今年她２１歲．她一直都知道我喜歡她的． 但她只想keep住做好朋友． 問題在於我所付出的已不只是Base on純友誼，而她仍繼續欣然接受 （ｅｇ一些對女朋友的態度）．．．我是否應繼續等下去及付出呢？？
小Ｐ得 |
Dear 小Ｐ得:很抱歉!在這裡說句實話:聽起來這位女孩子目前對你的感情只是"無魚蝦也好", 她也許在想:"我還年輕,那天可能會有條件更好的人出現..." 除非你能証明給她看,讓她悟到她再也不會遇上任何人比你更好,你可能只有失望的份, 不管你等了多久...(希望我是錯的...)
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瑪格﹕你好！Two weeks ago, I wrote her a letter. I tell her that I love her, and ask if she wants to be my girlfriend. But I got no response. We are in the same school, and at the same sports team. So we have a lot of chance to be together. It has been about two years since we met.At the beginning, we had a lot of fun playing and went out many times. Everybody thought that we will be togerther. But when I date her and told her how I fell not so clearly, she didn't say anything to me. It's about 1 years ago. I was so depressed and pretended that nothing happened. My friends told me that I hadn't grasp the best timing. It must be something wrong. But I don't understand. Recently, she give me a present on my birthday. I found something wrong with her and took her to the doctor. We were so happy again, and I thought it's my chance again. You see the result. Now, I don't know how to do because she don't call me anymore. Would you please give me some suggestion to do? Thanks for your kindness.
-----sincerely Jeff |
Dear Jeff我想她也許不知道該怎麼來面對這類的問題所以只好避開你. 我想她可能一直識你為一個她能依賴的好朋友,和男女朋友之間的感情是不同的. 但是你的表白,把她也弄糊塗了,她不想失去你這個好朋友,但有不知如何來接受你的感情... 我想,你也不想失去她這個朋友吧!? 找她出來,喝杯咖啡或什麼的,坐下來輕鬆的聊聊, 別push的太用力了,說說彼此的困擾和期望吧!會比又一封表白書要好的.
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Dear Mugg:I met a guy in the same university, actually he is taking major with me. He is 2 years younger than me, but he is full of attractive. In the early Feb., he ask me to be his girlfriend. I was surprised, and I refuse him. I don't know what happen to me, somehow I start like he. What should I do in this kind of situation? Now he seem afraid to look at me.May |
Dear May:你已經知道他喜歡妳啦!不是嗎?現在妳又喜歡上他,那就去告訴他呀?希望上次妳沒有傷他太深 而讓他記恨在心才好
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Dear Mugg:I fancy a boy for years, we used to be classmates in primary school (even in kindergarden, I think), and I don't know when I started fancying him, but he was good looking, always very humerous (always made me laugh), hard working, and he was very nice to me (although he was also nice to other people as he was a nice guy).But after primary school,(6 years ago) he went to a boy school and I went to a girl school, and we did not have much chance to meet each other again, and I thought we won'r have any more chance, and I could gradually forget him, so I never tell him about this. Last xmas, many primary school classmates met together, and before I met him, I didn't think I like him as I used to, but after I met him again, I found out that I was still fancying him. But I don't know whether to tell him or not, as I think this may make him think that I am a 'cheap' girl, and also, I am not sure if I'll stand any chance, since he is very good looking and I think is quite popular amongst the girls although I heard that he had never had any gf yet. I fear that we cannot even be friends if I tell him. Moreover, I study aboard, so we can only see each other during long holidays when I come back home. Can you please suggest to me what I should do? Tell him or not to tell him???
Fafa |
Dear Fafa:妳既然離他這麼遠,又沒有別的機會多見到他,這麼多年你們也沒聯絡... 我想: What have you got to loose? 如果你不告訴他,你永遠也不知道 你會不會有那個機會讓他也喜歡上你,而如果是壞消息,你只不過就是打消這 念頭罷了,是不? So I say: Go for it! �
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